Michael Griswold here again I hope that you enjoy these last couple of videos that we made. We had a good time making them and I hope you got a lot out of them. From all of the comments that we seen on the blog and all of the feedback that we’ve gotten. It seems like you guys are really enjoyed it. I really appreciate that.
I’m going to wrap this three part series of with perhaps the most powerful statement that you will ever hear about relationships and communication. If you take this one sentence and apply it to your life every relationship that you have is going to instantly get 1000 times better.
There’s a sentence that I read from a guy named Blair Warren which is the most powerful sentence in persuasion that I have ever heard. It really encompasses everything that you need to know about how to effectively influence other people and hopefully for a good. The sentence is this: “People will do anything for those who encourage their dreams, justify their failures, allay their fears, confirm their suspicions and help them throw rocks at their enemies.” The sentence is brilliant because in it is encompasses every motivation that we have intrinsically as people. Now, if you can use that. If you can learn how to take that sentence and harness it and make it applicable to your relationship. Instantly your relationship goes through the moon. Instead of having these regular barrier surface type of conversations. You can see what is really motivating you and your partner in your interactions. It is fantastic. It is amazingly powerful. To take just one example, encouraging their dreams. Who doesn’t like having their dreams encouraged? If your dream is to be a rock star and Mick Jagger came up to you and said “Hey, dude I really think you got what it takes. I think that you can do it.” Instantly, your confidence level soars though the roof and you are immediately magnetically drawn to Mick Jagger. That is even know he looks like he is 170 years old.
Being able to use this type of strategy is amazingly powerful because most people do not communicate on that level. Most of the times we are communicating on a tit-for-tat type of level which isn’t nearly as effective. So there is far too much to go over about this sentence and its application to your relationship in this one short video. Relationships aren’t always easy is it? So we cannot have a silver bullet to solve it. So over the last few years I’ve been doing a lot of one on one coaching $125 an hour. As that demand started growing more, more and more. I realize there was no way that I was going to keep up and it was going to be prohibitive for some people.
So, I came up with something that is really going to be great. I’m not going to go into it in this video but I want you to know that I put together a program that I really think it’s going to “knock your socks off”. Is going to be the best program that you ever seen and you ever experience and I guarantee is going to make your relationship 1000 times better. So, if you are interested in this then put in your email address on this page so that when I do release this video you can be one of the first to know.